im really stressed because i just landed a potential gig as a VA starting next monday and i have like zero experience in this. i keep hearing about soft skills but i dont even really know what that means here? like do i need to be good at talking or just fast at typing? the client is in NYC and im in London so the time diff is making me nervous.
im willing to spend $50 on a course if i have to. what are the absolute most important things i should focus on so i dont get fired on day one???
Regarding what #2 said about 'Saw this today and honestly, the time zone...' - hes right. I use Grammarly Premium Annual Subscription to keep my writing professional when tired. Consistency is key, tho.
Honestly, congrats on the gig but dont waste that $50 on a generic course. I've tried a few of those VA masterclasses and unfortunately they were pretty surface level. They mostly just tell you to be nice and type fast, which isnt as good as expected when you are actually in the thick of it. Most of those influencers just sell dreams and the info is outdated. Since you are dealing with a 5-hour gap, reliability and being proactive are the only skills that matter right now. If you miss a deadline because you did the math wrong on the time zone, your client is gonna be annoyed. Here is how I manage the organization part because digital tools alone usually fail me:
Saw this today and honestly, the time zone thing is what usually trips people up way more than just being nice or typing fast. Since you're in London and they're in NYC, you're five hours ahead. That's a huge trap. If you wait for them to wake up at 9am their time to ask a simple question, you've basically wasted your whole afternoon. In my experience, the absolute most critical soft skill is actually proactive communication. Over the years I've realized clients hate chasing people for updates. You gotta show them the work is happening before they even think to ask. Reliability is way more valuable than just being a fast typer.
@Reply #3 - good point! Professionalism in writing is a big deal, but in my experience over the years, sheer reliability is what actually keeps you from getting fired. If the client cant trust that youll be online when they wake up in NYC, the relationship falls apart fast. I have a quick clarifying question though: what specific tasks did they hire you for? Are you doing deep research or just managing an inbox? The skills you need to prioritize change a lot depending on that answer. I've tried many different setups to stay reliable, and honestly, you need a backup for everything. I always keep a TP-Link M7350 4G LTE MiFi fully charged next to my desk. If your home internet blinks out during an NYC morning rush, you're toast without a fail-safe. For staying organized without the clutter, I highly recommend TickTick Premium. It handles reminders way better than basic lists. TL;DR: Reliability is the top soft skill. Get a backup internet source and a bulletproof task manager so you never miss a ping.